2007年4月24日 星期二

My rough week -week 1 (from Hao-Hao)...




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Taking the flight wasn't fun at all...
Mommy took me to a very strange place tonight.
It was a huge place and all the people there walked with their huge boxes...
I was so tired and I didn't understand how come Mommy took me there at midnight because she always said sleep early is the best for me.
Daddy looked weird, too. He couldn't stop hugging me and kissing me. He asked me to miss him when I couldn't see him but I love to see him and play with him everyday. I started feeling sad.... I didn't understand how come Daddy wasn't coming with us...

We were in a closed place with lots of noise. I was so sleepy but I didn't see my bed there. The lady said that I was too big for the crib they have so they asked me to sleep on the floor. Mommy was very angry at the lady so I decided to go to sleep right away so Mommy could feel better. I swear I did try mt best but I couldn't fall asleep. My ears hurt and my nose was so dry. I started crying because of the pain. Mommy looked so worried but she couldn't help me. I felt like going home...

We stayed forever in that closed place. I really hated it. I felt so bored and Mommy said I shouldn't make noise because I might annoy other people. But,there was not much for me to do. After a while I was tired and upset so I started creaming.. I couldn't stop myself even though I know Mommy would not be happy...


I knew Mommy was tired but I couldn't control myself. I was screaming and crying for a long time so Mommy had to carry me walking back and forth. I felt bad for Mommy but I felt even worse for myself....

Finally we were allowed to leave that scary place but I was already exhausted. This was the most terrifying experience I have ever have. If I have the choice, I will never ever take the flight again...

2. What's going on here???

Mommy said that we came the long way to visit my grandparents and they really missed me very much. I didn't remember them and I was a little bit afraid. They seemed very nice but I liked my Mommy and Daddy better. I wanted going back home to stay with Daddy but Mommy said we had to stay with grandparents for a month. I don't like it but I decided to behave.
We were very busy everyday. Mommy took me to visit a lot of people. They were curious about me so they either squeezed my face or kissed me hard. I felt tired and can't stop thinking about the time being with Daddy... I also didn't understand how come it was still daytime when I was ready for bed. I have to say I really stressed Mommy out. I woke up 3 to 4 times a night and needed Mommy to hold me to sleep. I felt bad for mommy but I did have a lot of bad dreams....
I didn't have too much fun in Taiwan in the past week. And we still have 5 weeks to go. I am worried but I know Mommy will be with me and she will take care of me..




6 則留言:

SuzieScape 提到...

Dear Zoe

加油加油! 小米大約也經過兩到三週才習慣台灣的生活 我想昊昊說不定會快一點 與其說孩子需要適應 其實媽咪我們自己也在適應吧 從你這篇BLOG 可以看出你有多想念昊昊爸爸 的確 六七個月來 我們是跟著先生一路扶持才帶著孩子走到這田地 現在需要一些適應 也讓其他家人來幫忙 帶孩子回台灣媽媽真的比較辛苦 我也是這樣所以回到美國的時候 才會跟予新有過於強烈的ATTACHMENT需要重新調整 這都是過程 也是一種體驗

飛機上辛苦了 最近半夜也辛苦了 加油 再過幾天應該會好一些 好好利用台灣的資源 等過一鎮子輕鬆一下

相信我 我剛回去也是成天想著提早回美國 因為是在很累 也很想孩子的爸 可是之後 卻又捨不得回美國了

SUZIE

匿名 提到...

佳欣
我是俞慧...你終於上線囉
還在台灣嗎
我留電話給你唷
如果還沒回去
可以聯繫依下唷
0930-044399

Unknown 提到...

Dear Zoe,
看起來你們一路上受苦了!! 雖然我沒有親身體會, 可是我可以想見你這一個禮拜的煎熬, 尤其是在飛機上哪兒都不能去的感覺, 一定很難熬! 我七月也要帶小mi坐飛機去溫哥華, 雖然飛程比回台灣短很多, 但是也會碰到小mi stranger anxiety開始的時候, 到時候, 也要辛苦了. 給你加油!! 苦日子快要過去了!

Zoe (佳欣) 提到...

Dear Friends,

Thank you for your support!! 我真幸運 有妳們在我身邊陪我 給我打氣...
是啊 我真的很想念 在紐約的昊昊爸爸和我的家 但我更珍惜這段得之不易與爸媽相處的時間 我會努力的...

To小魚兒
Sorry, 我媽媽生病了
所以最近比較忙
我們5月底才回紐約去
一定會有機會碰面的
我的電話是05-2767771

匿名 提到...

It really helps me to read from Hao's perspective. It is given that the first week must be tough. I bet the rest of the time will be more fun and relaxing. Is Taiwan hot there? Anyway, congratulations that you made it to Taiwan and passed the first challenge of flying! We're leaving in two days. Out of concern, I bought a seat for Aiden and borrowed a car seat that fits in airplane seat. Hope he adjusts well... We miss you. Hope you and Hao get the most out of the trip and make lots of memories!

Aiden Mom

Zoe (佳欣) 提到...

Dear Yoonjin,
Thank you for your feedback and support!!! And wish you have a smooth flight.
Maybe you can buy Children's Benadryl for Aiden which can help him fall asleep easier in the plane. I really had bad experience with the flight attentants. Even we were in the Business Class and had an extra seat next to me, they couldn't make an appropriate arrangement for hao....Too bad....
Anyway, Good luck and enjoy your vocation.